Friday, April 30, 2010

Serenity Now!

I seem to always get embroiled in anger whenever I plan family events. This past week both my family and hubbs' family have completely pissed me off regarding plans for Mother's Day. We are trying to combine both families together so that we don't have to jump around to different houses, however, trying to coordinate while making everyone happy never works. Everyone has do to things "their" way. Sometimes I think we need to just stick with separate family events. It is almost easier, despite having to drive to different locations. At least feelings aren't hurt and temper tantrums are fewer.

There have been so many moments lately where I literally have to take a step back, take a breather and move on because I will let myself get super fired up if I stew over it. Hubbs is really good about getting mad over something but then forgetting about it. Things just eat away at me until I explode. I am really trying to ask for "Serenity Now", put things into perspective and not give a shit. And then I pour myself a glass of Pinot Noir which helps too.

3 comments:

Just Jiff said...

This is my life's motto:
"I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody."
~Bill Cosby

美岑 said...

君子如水,隨方就圓,無處不自在。..................................................

惠IdellA_Fecteau1231蘋 said...

失意人前,勿談得意事;得意人前,勿談失意事。..................................................